Day 5 - CO here we come!!

we took the morning pretty easy today, knowing we had quite a few hours of driving ahead of us tonight (appx. 7hrs) we thought it might be a good idea to save our energy but let the kids release theirs. so we killed two birds with one stone, we took the kids up to Ft. Riley, the post that Randy works at with a picnic lunch. the kids played on the playground. we ate some lunch, enjoyed the sunshine! then we drove around the post to see the housing area that kellie and randy would have lived in. we saw the area where all the army trucks were parked. we also saw quite a bit of historical sites within the post, it was pretty cool! when i said to tuscan-"look babe, theres some soliders" he said "no mom, army guys!!" it was pretty cute.

then we headed home for naps and packed up the truck. when randy called to say he was on his way, kellie and i made a chipotle run to pick up dinner and by 530 we were on the road. "on the road again..." it seems to be the theme song of our trip!



we pulled in the driveway at kellie's parents about 1am...tears rimmed my eyes when her mom walked out the door and i was standing there holding matteo! i havent seen her at all since we've had the boys and although she has seen pictures, it just isnt the same! i am so excited to be here!!

thankfully the boys were amazing the whole ride and they went to bed without any issues. waking up in the morning to the fresh mountain air, surrounded by so many people that we have missed dearly will certainly make every hour spent in the car completely worth it!

midway...a day of rest! day 4

i think it finally caught up with us today...it was about time we all take a nap! kellie woke up not feeling well-the start of her first pregnancy cold, i was really tired and irritable. the kids were all in much need of a nap, so for the early part of the day, thats what we did!

when randy got home we ate some dinner, used up some of the perishables before taking off for the weekend to CO...then we packed everyone up (dogs included) and headed to the water where kellie and randy like to take the dogs for a swim! it was much breezier there than any of us anticipated, but it was gorgeous nonetheless. i never would have pictured KS to have a lake that looked the way this one did...it was huge! and the dam at the end of it was impressively large as well!

the dogs weren't the only ones who decided to take a swim, tuscan thought it might be good to test out the waters too, only to find out it was way to cold! and of course we didnt have any extra clothes on us so we stripped him down and dressed him up in franks t-shirt! it was way to huge on him and i was afraid the wind would pick him up and blow him away, so we tied it up like a toga! he wasnt all that happy about it but he looked darn cute!

after the "swim" we headed back to the house to drop off the dogs and took the kids out for ice cream and some energy kill time on the playground at Sonic. they had a blast, and so did frank and randy! the ice cream wasnt bad either...although i left feeling quite stuffed!

tomorrow is the big day, a day we have anticipated for a little over 4 years...we are heading back to CO for the first time since we moved home...thankfully we are all driving in kellie and randy's truck, otherwise it might be to hard for us to turn around on monday and head back to where we belong!

a day in the state capitol! - day 3

up and out the door pretty early today. we packed up and punched our destination into the GPS and headed to the state capitol to visit their zoo! and guess what...topeka has an amazing zoo, quite possibly the best we have ever been to and its in the process of getting better. there were so many new exhibits being constructed, i can only imagine how much better it will be in a year when kellie and randy can bring their own baby there!

all of the habitats were so natural and spacious. it was the kind of zoo that reassures you that these animals are living a good life in captivity. they had posted all of the personal information about the animals, their names, birthdates, where they came from. many of the animals were siblings - the female lions were sisters, born of the same litter and in the wild! the male on the other hand had been human raised. there were 3 tigers, all from the same litter, a brother and two sisters. the tigers were only a pane of glass away from us and the male was pacing back and forth. it gave you the sense that you could just reach right out and pet them! it was awesome. the boys loved it!

frank and his boys!

after the zoo we headed to the mall for some chik-fil-a for lunch. it was just as good as we remembered it and the service from the food court in the mall was amazing! while there i grabbed two new pairs of much needed work pants at old navy, they were a steal of a deal and the best part is, they actually fit! i also found for baby mac super cute pea pod jammies! tuscan was so excited to "surprise" kellie with them when she got home!

the guys went golfing this afternoon and then met us at old chicago's for dinner, another resturant frank and i had been looking forward to hitting up while we were out this way. as much as we missed a lot of the "buffalo food" while we lived in CO, there is a lot of CO resturants that we sure do miss now. Our pizza's were amazing, the italian nachos were to die for and we all over indulged on a pizza size chocolate chip cookie with vanilla ice cream for dessert. despite how late it was by the time we made it to dinner, the boys did awesome!

we ended the night with another 2 rounds of Wii bowling and tonight, randy was the one that forgot to show up. kellie and i kicked their butts again! if we had more friends to hang out with back home, it might even be kind of fun to invest in our own Wii!!

now its time to sleep...rest up for another day of fun!

The Sunset Zoo

Day 2 -
Kellie and Randy headed back to work this morning, for a typical Monday and Frank and I packed the kids up and headed to the most local of the local zoo's. we didnt have the highest of expectations given that we are in a super small town, but the zoo was actually very nice. it was very clean, very hands on. there was a good variety of animals and the kids loved the playground!

a baby chimp, born this spring! he was super cute and super playful!

a pelican, the boys asked him if he knew where Nemo was!

a bald eagle - they are just so gorgeous! such a strong american symbol...

tuscan was trying to see how close he could actually get to the peacock! they were roaming around everywhere!

my boys, they all looked so cute today!

im not quite sure when it was that they all became so grown up,

but this summer they sure have turned into little men!

we finished up at the zoo just in time for kellie to take her lunch break. she met us at Sonic, a first for frank and the kids and i. super delish - wish we had one in the Buff...we have the commercials, but we're still lacking in the actual establishment!

the kids also had a blast playing on the play ground there.

we spent the remained of the afternoon hanging out around the house. we had hotdogs and burgers on the grill for dinner and then kellie and i snuck out for some well overdo girl time together. we went out to wander the mall for a bit and got pedicures (a tradition for us), had ice cream and starbucks and wandered through target...just like the good ol' days.

its so wonderful to be here, to be spending time with my other other half. there was a moment on the drive down that i was relishing in the excitement of where i was actually driving to when it suddenly hit me that in a week i would be saying good-bye. before i was even half way here, i was crying that i would have to leave. as much as i hate that we live so far away from each other, i am so beyond grateful that we can see each other once a year and pick up right where we left off, as if it had only been a week that had passed.

kellie and i are so blessed to have become friends and to have held on the our friendship over the miles over the years. i cannot imagine my life without her, she is my rock in so many ways. i love her, my kids love her, our husbands love each other! God so had a plan when he brought the two of us together and i truly feel in my heart that it was definitely a life long plan!

now to rest up for another action packed, fun filled day! (only after a teams game of Wii bowling...kellie and i are going to kick butt...)

our KS vacation (day 1)

i know, i havent really blogged all summer, but too bad...i've been making the most of my time in other ways!

we are on our first family of 5 half-way-cross-country roadtrip, visiting kellie and randy (and baby Mac) in Kansas! we left home at 330 saturday afternoon and excitedly pulled in their driveway shortly after 12noon today!

it was a long drive and being the middle of the night for most of it, there really wasnt much to see. but dispite it all, the kids were amazing! they didnt sleep nearly as much as i anticipated they would. we were really hoping they would sleep there normal 9-10 hours during the night, but a movie at 3am is not something we would usually call normal! there was minimal whining/crying the whole 20 hours that we were in the van! what can i say, my boys are amazing!! frank and i even seem to be doing ok, although it sure will feel nice to go to sleep laying down tonight!

when i called kellie to let her know we were getting close, she asked how we felt about arriving to a lunch from chipotle! of course there was no arguement on that one...i think we have an unofficial goal set to see how many times we can eat chipotle in one week! it tasted just as good as we remembered it to be and it was gi-normous! kellie said the size was the advantage to eating in a college town!

once we got the van unloaded, the carseats switched over to kellie's truck and everyone showered/bathed...we re-packed up and headed to Kansas City to enjoy a fun filled dinner at the T-Rex Cafe (operated by the same people that created the rainforest cafe!) and connected to it was a Build-A-Dino, operated by the Build-A-Bear company. so the kids each got to pick out and make their own Dino (thanks aunt kellie and uncle randy for the awesome bday present!!) to my surprise, all 3 boys picked out their dino's by themselves and they each named them on their own too! Tuscan named his Rex, Teo's is Ducks and Cenzo named his Boogie!! they are so cute and the boys love them. they carried them around like a new puppy as we wandered around the outdoor mall.

dinner there was delicious, but the service was something to question. the prices were a reflection of the atmosphere, but all in all the most important part for us was the company! although frank and randy have only even spent a few days together (the last time was the week of our wedding, 5 years ago) they are definitely a good pair! kellie and i got lucky that our primary significant others enjoy each others company as much as we need them too!

the twins got a little fussy on the ride home tonight, but i guess thats to be expected after all we put them through in the last 24 hours! another 4 hours in the car was probably not our best choice, but we got it out of the way at least! and by the time we got home they were so sound asleep that we changed them into their jammies and they rolled over in their beds and we never heard a peep!

kellie and randy are working semi-normal hours this week, so tomorrow morning frank and i will be heading to the Manhattan Zoo with the boys and the GPS! we plan to meet kellie on her lunch break and im sure the evening will be filled with something fun for all of us! so stay tuned, my plan is to post everyday we are away!

a dedication to kellie...

i know life is throwing you yet another curve ball this week...and my thoughts and prayers are with you that things happen they way they are supposed to. you are one of the most amazing women i have ever known, the most devoted wife, my greatest friend ever, a supportive sister and wonderful daughter...and better yet, you are going to be such a loving, nurturing mother, i cannot wait to walk this new path in life with you!

i read something today and i felt it was written for you, so i wanted to share...i hope it helps pick you back up this week! i love you.

Grow where you are planted...

i know you sometimes wonder if life has any real worth. but i assure you that i can use you to impact those around you. just as i used Paul in prison i will use you wherever you are or whatever circumstances you are in. let me water you with my holy word and you will begin to bloom wherever you are planted. come to me in prayer and let me empower you with my spirit. even if you cant see the harvest of your hard work now, i promise that others will one day look back at the time you were in their lives and remember your acts of kindness, words of wisdom and love for them. so for now, my valuable princess, let me help you blossom in a world that is searching for the meaning of life. love, your king and gardener of life

i cannot begin to imagine doing what you do, sacrificing so open-heartedly and just doing because you know its the right thing to do. you are amazing, both you and randy and i am so blessed to have you both in my life. i will forever be indebted to the years you have so graciously served my country to protect me and my family. i know right now you are feeling uncertain about where you should turn, but know that you have what it takes to make the right decision for your family. together you have come this far, through thick and thin you have grown even closer. this is just one more bump in the road, another page to add to your story called life. one more adventure to someday share with your children/grandchildren...it will all work out, no matter what...have faith and dont stress...stress wont help anything!

love you tons and cant wait to be there with you to hug you in times like this!

i am alive!

summer is always a pretty busy time of the year, for everyone i think. we all try to cram in as much as we can in the few short months that we have! and we sure have been doing a good job. that is why i havent seemed to find the time to blog. im sorry, but i guess it just means i have my priorities in order??!! im not spending as much time in my day in this darn computer. instead im playing baseball with my boys, going for walks after dinner, eating popsicles out on the deck, reading books before bed, working from home to pay off debt, taking day trips as a family, celebrating birthdays and just loving life. so i guess if you really want to know whats been going on this summer, you'll have to come over and spend a day with us to find out for yourself! im sure my boys would be happy to share a popsicle with you!

ill try to do a more office recap with some pics from this month soon...but for now, im going to try and finish a scrapbook page that i started over a month ago! wish me luck!

im sorry...

i am so sorry that i have failed you (me) with blogging this month...i started off so good and then i fell of track...again!

but i am here now, happy to report that my crazy boys are growing well. they have all had doctor appointments this week and here are their stats:


Tuscan - 3 years old....35 lbs....38 inches....50th percentile for height...75th percentile for weight (doctors comments - "you must be a solid boy, because you dont look like you should be 75th for weight!! you're lean!")






Matteo - 19 months old....24 lbs, 13 oz....33 inches



Vincenzo - 19 months old....25 lbs, 2 oz....33 inches



i dont have the other stats on the twins because frank took them to the appointment, i got there after my own dr. appt just in time for shots so frank could head to work. frank got the fun part, i got the heartbreaking part...

other than that, life has been life...pretty normal, pretty busy and i've been working a ton! trying to get all my time in on the clock before the weeks get busier with the fun stuff!! so when the fun stuff kicks off (on june 30th) ill try super super hard to keep you posted on all of it! until then, enjoy your summer as much as we are trying to enjoy ours!

AAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!

that is about how i have felt since somewhere around 330 today, shortly after i got the bright idea to take a nap. how stupid i can be sometimes. it wasn't like i was overly exhausted...just moderately exhausted. i haven't opened in about a week, and i did today so i thought maybe a nap would be a good idea. well that idea exploded and turned into my own version of "shannon's terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day!" or how ever that book title goes.

i'll spare you all the gruesome details of my misery and jump to the part of the day that actually made me laugh through my frustration. i gave all the boys their bath and while taking them out one at a time, placing them each in the twins bedroom to get diapered and dressed...Cenzo was the first one out tonight. by the time i had Teo out of the tub, Cenzo had gotten himself unwrapped from his towel, off the toddler bed and walked over to where Tarzan was sleeping in the corner of the room.

"whats that noise?" i thought to myself..."the fan? no...oh my goodness, Cenzo NO!!!" to late, he was already peeing on the poor dog!

they say that payback is a (fill in the blank), so i guess that was tarzan's payback for all of his horrible days as a puppy!

and somehow at the end of the day, when they are all sound asleep - dogs included - i find a small space in my heart that still managed to hold on to some love for them. thankfully my heart seems to forget about days like today easier than my mind does because i have full confidence that i will start over tomorrow with my boys consuming 99% of my heart, only to slowly, or quickly, see how they can make it diminish!

thank goodness we apparently dont remember the bad times as the kids grow up, we somehow only seem to remember the good...at least thats what the "im so grateful to be past that stage" moms tell me!

a bit of randomness...

no pictures from today...just a few random thoughts

1. i am sick of changing three sets of size 5 diapers. my 3 year old needs to stop saving his poops for naptime/bedtime when he has either a pull up or diaper on. its getting really old really quick and i think he may need to start changing himself if he doesnt want to change his ways!

2. i made a fabulous dinner tonight, it was very healthy and it used up some of the things that were leftover in the fridge...amazing! oh and the kids ate it...even better!

3. took the boys for a walk tonight to kone king...nonna gave them money for ice cream because they did such a good job eating their dinner while i cut her hair. wish she could be here with that bribe every night - the ice cream was really good and the walk to get there, while pulling the wagon, was pretty nice too! but apparently a kiddie cup and a small arent enough for me and my 3 sons...next time they each get their own kiddie cup! (partly so i dont have to share my sprinkles!!)

4. i think i am developing an "addiction" to geotrax...yes the kid trainset toys that fisher price makes. the boys have quite the growing collection of them and i just discovered so many new ones that we have never seen on ebay! i want to buy them all...anyone want to offer me a 3rd part-time job to pay for this?? dont worry i havent started bidding yet...but i want to!

5. i hate unloading the top shelf of the dishwasher, along with the silverware tray...there is to much little stuff and i just hate it.

6. i get irritated when anyone other than me folds the kids clothes. outfits should be folded together...the twins matching/coordinating clothes should be piled together so they wear them at the same time, just make it easy to put away when you fold it and put it in the basket the right way. duh! makes sense to me...otherwise put it away yourself!

7. i wont go in my basement after dark, particularly if i am home with the kids by myself. ya never know what/who might be waiting down there in the dark corners...could be a spider, could be a killer...i'd rather never find out!

8. im sick of this allergy season. my nose hurts inside and out...my throat has been to scratchy and i just dont want it anymore!

9. i am super excited to celebrate the fact that frank and i have paid off nearly $5000 in debt so far this year...not counting what has been paid off with our regular monthly car payments! thanks dave ramsey...your program really works! our debt snowball is really rolling! and we still have 6 months before the year is over!

10. i love my husband, my boys and my life so much lately. i am finally starting to feel very secure with where we are at and i owe 100% of it to God, not only for answering my prayers personally, but for putting other people in my life who care enough about me and my family to also pray for us. He is amazing when you find a way to put all your faith in Him. if you haven't tried it, you should!

have a good night...i think i might too!